I am sure I'm opening myself up for some harsh comments here but whatever...I haven't tried online dating but was thinking about it. I've heard a lot of horror stories from both men and women so I am reluctant to sign up. In fact, I'd really rather not. I wouldn't ask someone out at work because that's inappropriate but I don't go downtown. If I had to rate myself with a number I would probably give myself somewhere between a 6 and a 7, closer to 7 I guess. I'm sometimes funny, pretty smart, a nice person...so how do I meet someone? I make enough money but am not rich, I don't own a car or a house. But I feel like there is more to me than that, at least I hope some women still care about other things? I'm not looking for a super model or a perfect person. This isn't really a bitch, just wondering if anyone has any suggestions? There are a lot of opinions shared on this forum, someone has to know some trick I've missed haha. How do people meet offline these days? Friends recommend joining a club but I feel like joining a club to meet someone to date is insincere...and similar to asking someone out at work. What do people even do? I'm out of the loop. —Feeling lonely and getting kinda bummed out :(

Contrary to your believe people know you are the opposite of what you portray to be. Do you ever wonder what justifies your behaviour and if there is anything wrong with deceiving your partner. Are you at all aware that you are conning yourself in thinking your possessions and looks make you a valuable partner? Attributes and things may get you the attention, however you conduct the way you walk through life, the footprint you leave behind is who you are. You should bother to examine your motivating factors for the lies you think you rely on, those lies indicate you are aware what you are trying to conceal is unacceptable and deserve to be put in question, if you think you are entitled to act a certain way why not conceal what you think you are entitled to. Have you ever considered that entitlement is a justification you come up with to do what you want, then why do you feel the need to conceal or lie about it . Maybe you are conning yourself into the believe that you are entitled to do what your gut tells you is wrong and hence you see the need to lie about it to conceal your unacceptable behaviour. If you were to stop the behaviour deemed wrong by your standards, you won’t have a reason to lie OR keep doing what you want but stop pretending you are better then what you are. For as long as you conceal your actions in lies, you camouflage who you are, depriving your love interest of an informed choice to take you as you are to or move on. Does it feel right to you being cared about for without caring about someone. You determine the depth of relationship you can have. So while you think your lies hide your true nature, those speak volumes about who you are once found out, therefore the thing you are most concerned about peoples opinion is the exact opposite of what you are trying to achieve with your lies. You are known as a selfish, self absorbed user and predator who uses lies and deceit to conquer a woman’s heart. —Done with you

During a hot sexting session, "I wanna slither my tongue around you like a sssssnake" totally did not work. Why did it get Jerry so hot and bothered. I got no response! Fuck@! —Co-Stanza!

To the girl who screamed at her boyfriend for 3 hours straight in the middle of woods in the middle of the night on Layes Lake Road...I think you have really bad anger and drinking issues! To her boyfriend...grow some balls! How did you just let her scream at you for that long?? I felt really bad for your friend who was obviously third wheel and had to deal with that! It was my son's first time going camping and we decided to go somewhere peaceful, not a campground and you ruined it with your nonsense! If my son wasn't there I wouldnt have to make this bitch because you would of definitely met me! —IHYDHA (I Hope You Dumped Her Ass)

Why is my current romantic aspiration to find a someone who will have the decency to cheat on me with someone who is at least a little bit attractive? —my bile tastes like yard sale

I've known for a while you're a CD I would've cared for you enough to accept you for who you are; however you didn't accept me for who I was. —Judge me not: Leo

I could submit a bitch about how you're not that considerate, how you don't think to send a text after our nights out to see if I got home safe, how you take so long to get back to me but you're glued to your phone when we're together. This could be a bitch about all of the things you do that get under my skin, but instead this is a bitch by me, for me. I'm pissed at myself because for some reason I can't seem to just tell you what I want. I'm pissed because it's my inability to tell you how I feel that is part of the problem. I have no idea why I'm like this and I'm not even going to attempt to place blame anywhere. All I'm going to say is damn, Self, you gotta get your shit together or else you will never be happy. —Bitcher to bitcher

To the man who lied about burying his grandmother just so he could avoid getting out of a date: You think that makes you a better person, but it doesn't. You’re just a little boy who needs a woman to give him confidence. You went to extreme lengths to lie to a lady. I told you everyone would know what you did and I'm keeping that promise. You’re now dating a woman who is just as crappy as you, and that fact that she's still with you shows me that her self-esteem is just as low as yours. —Cindy

To all the emotionally unavailable and love-avoidant grown-ass men out there: it's time to grow up. I'm tired of your “get close then run away” dance, then come back but don't have the balls to see it through. You're going to end up alone and miserable, with no one to look after you in your old age. See a therapist, heal your emotional wounds. Let me help. —The Love Doctor

Is it wrong or disturbing that I, a 21 year old woman, wants to have sex with Donald Trump? —I'd do everything to that man