I have an amazing girlfriend who, for reasons I can't figure out, has been pretty much single since I have known her. I realize at our age (39) it's harder to find a mate but c'mon!

She is fun, positive, up for adventure, loves dancing, is an awesome cook and the best friend anyone can have. She doesn't play games and has a very healthy, underused, sex-drive (granted, she will probably rip the next guy to shreds in the sack).

So, where are the men who are honest and are actually ready to date? There has to be men out there who aren't still in love with, or still living with, an ex-girlfriend or wife... —Want to see my gal get love and laid... well, not actually "see" but you get it.