I watched you this summer be challenged every where you turned; with work, loss of family and other people you loved. You stumbled but you needed room to do that. You carried on and in the midst of other huge changes in your life, you started to laugh again, tell jokes again, be "You" again. I know sadness creeps in sometimes when you think of the people you have lost, but know that their life was made more rich for knowing you. Every day is a gift, you said to me, and while I don't like each day I treasure the lessons it teaches. You may never understand why people chose to leave, or why people die suddenly but you now know what strength is in you. I count myself lucky to be your friend and your confidante. I just need you to know that. —Red Fraggle

You’re awesome girl. It’s been a whirlwind since I met you a few weeks ago at an outdoors store — you looking for gloves for a winter hike. Since hanging out with you as ‘friends’ I’ve fallen hard. Classic beauty, outdoorsy, smart as a whip, always happy and laughing, and so darn sweet—with the body of a Baywatch babe to boot. You’ve been dodging bullets, dating guys who are obviously blind—and can’t match your pace—so I’m getting ready to plan a romantic session involving sleeping bags that zip together. Ready to get this fire started and watch sparks fly. —I'm The Fire Starter

I am gonna miss Mike Holmes and his great comic interpretations of Hali's greatest stories...Now THAT'S a true story! —Devoted Reader

When people get lonely enough they'll do anything. Including manipulating people. I'm so desperately lonely I've been sleeping with the most terrible people. No others will even give me the time of day. I'm not doing it for the sex either, just the company. I go months on end without ever being touched by another human. No pat on the back, no high fives, no holding hands... Ever feel like you just need a companion? A partner? A friend? I'd really just love a genuine, warm, cozy hug from someone who loves me. —Less Than the Lonely Number One

I know, I need to entice you into the 'chase' that most men so desire. The truth is, you have won my heart already. We both like olives, but I believe we can make it work. Please don't be oblivious, I'm really bad at this! —Lavender Girl

Thanks for being a strong person. I see people who've gone through similar things, and their lives have been absolutely destroyed. How is it I can still trust people? Shouldn't I be one of those people with "trust issues"? Shouldn't I be an addict? What is it that makes me so strong? My upbringing? My friends? Some little unknown organ inside me? Maybe this is just me. I think I am actually pretty kickass, it's just taken me many years to realize it. Probably more years than I've even been on this planet. I haven't always been this way and I'm glad I'm around today to witness myself. Thinking back to those nights where I would've given anything to never wake up again will always bring tears to my eyes. But the great thing is that I have those tears, as well as pumping lungs and a heartbeat. I'm glad I'm still here with confidence and passion. I'm glad I've come to know what happiness is. Shout outs to the furry ones! Especially the one on my lap. —It Does Get Better

I want to give thanks to the universe for you-a goddess who has crossed my path. You came in recently to have your car serviced-your adorable little car packed full of horse blankets and treats. All the guys here were going NUTS. I could not have imagined you in my wildest dreams! You are a combination Catherine Zeta Jones/ Jacqueline Bissett/ Shania Twain with a long flowing mane of golden brown curly hair. You have a knockout body and a butt that rivals Pippa's. Your legs seemed to go on forever. You were just so sweet and totally oblivious to the effect you were having. I don't know if you are married or single and I don't care! I hope eventually you will get tired of whatever relationship you are in and give me some room to maneuver! —Here Alone With the Moon

I have been going through a difficult time lately (divorce from an abusive alcoholic, trying to get my life together for myself and my children, etc) and a woman on twitter has been my sounding board. I don't know her life, I don't know her background, I only know of her humour and her willingness to listen to my struggle. She offers encouragement and a sense of belonging when I feel most lost. Thank you pitcherplantnl for fostering a virtual friendship when many would have turned away. I hope that I can some day give strength to another like you have to me. I have told her how much she has helped directly many times but feel that a public (but anonymous) thank you is needed. —A Little Damaged But Surviving

Saw you last Friday at the grocery store. I went weak at the knees.You were behind me in the check out we chatted and again behind me in the NSLC. You bought wine, the clerk ID'd you. I wouldn't have, but you did look so young in your short blue skirt and black tights.Maybe next time you'll let me drive you home, instead of a taxi. —Love Struck Older Man

About the mess you think you made of your life. I simply cared for you. —Was Always a Friend First