I just want to apologize to you for my abruptness with you in late August at the hospital. When you came in and asked if it was OK to clean I replied "No, it's not. This is not a good time." How could you have known that my beloved family member had literally just died the minute before? Anyway, I have been thinking of you and I wanted you to know that my abruptness was a reflection on me, not you. —Grief is no excuse