There are men out there who are sexual predators and are very good at manipulating women to believe that they are "good guys" who care and are a support to you. Some of these men are disabled and are able to present themselves as being "solid" great guys meanwhile they use their disabled and benign prescence to confuse you and manipulate you and some of these types of men are downright viscious and brutal but you would never guess it by their timid and so-called helpless demeanour. There are men who can really hide their true motives very very well and so I learned the extreme hared way to never, ever judge a book by it's cover what may at first appear as an innocent and caring person could turn out ot be the most vile enemy you have ever known. So just be very, very cautious ladies cause evil lurks among us and it could be anyone even possibly the innocent looking guy. —E. V.