Love the Way We Love | Halifax, Nova Scotia | THE COAST
Thursday, December 19, 2013

Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 at 8:01 AM

I found it difficult to forgive you for the exceedingly shitty things you've done. I struggled to understand what I could have said or did to make you hate me so much and treat me so horribly. My life has taken an unexpected turn and while this is an anonymous post (and perhaps pointless), it is the only outlet that I am stong enough to take.

Here is what I have learned. By holding on to the sadness (and yes, hate) that I felt about the situation (and you) I was hurting myself more than anyone else ever could (including you). The truth, as I now see it, is that you were more sad than I ever realized and more damaged than I knew. I'm sorry I could not be there for you in the way you needed. I'm sorry that my love and support wasn't making you happy. I'm sorry I just didn't understand. I'm simply sorry.

Be good to your loved ones, they do love you and will see you through any challenge. Don't walk away from love, acceptance, or support, life is desperately short. Believe in yourself as I do. Learn from the past but forge a new and happier future.

This advice and words are for you to take or discard as you see fit. I am but one person in a legion of people who love(d) you. These days I have the luxury of time to reflect, but they are quickly becoming less so I think it's best I write them now.

Keep going along your path, the rewards are endless.

And Thank You. For a whole host of things. —Really Doesn't Matter

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 at 12:38 PM

Thanks to the kind soul who saw me creeping down the slick ice hill that was Witherod on Monday morning. I was fairly certain that I'd die before reaching Herring Cove Road, but you backed up your car to offer me a lift. You've restored my faith in humanity and have reminded me how much I love the people of HRM (even if they're from Moncton!)! Merry Xmas! —Going Cleat Shopping

Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 at 12:34 PM

To the wonderful bus driver who let me stay on the bus without my pass and gave me a transfer for later so I wouldn't walk home alone late and in the dark. Thank you so much. I was having the worst day and your kindness immediately snapped me out of it. I hope someone does something great for you and I hope this public appreciation doesn't get you in trouble. —Distressed student

Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 at 12:29 PM

To the three awesome guys who helped me push my car from its icy spot off of a Carlton Street parking lot thank you so much. You all walked away before I could properly thank you and I didn't even know people extended that kind of kindness in real life but it completely made my day -- I won't be forgetting it! —Flustered Red-Headed Ford Owner

Monday, December 16, 2013

Posted on Mon, Dec 16, 2013 at 1:15 PM

Quiet, so quiet
Not at peace,
Look into my eyes
Others like me, they know
Memories haunt my sleepless nights

My Mother she chooses life so simple
Thinks it black and white
She knows of what I’ve done in life
But does not see my internal fight

My Family has disowned me,
I’m saddened by these thoughts,
It puts me deeper in a depressive hole,
To again fight battles fought

My Father was my best friend,
My Mother confidant,
My Brother and sister wrote a letter
To let me know that I am not.

I see people who care for me now,
It goes past the dollar sign,
I have now a new family,
Professionals who are designed to be kind.

Memories haunt my sleepless nights
Memories haunt my days,
Over and over and over again,
I pay and pay and pay.

If given the chance to repeat my life
Would I change anything
I can't say I would for sure
I'm Proud to be Canadian
—Lost Son

Sunday, December 15, 2013

Posted on Sun, Dec 15, 2013 at 9:27 PM

To the tall cute guy whos flight was delayed at the Halifax airport going to the Caribbean. Your smile is so nice and you made my day chatting with me. I hope your trip ends out well and you get out tomorrow morning like you hoped. Safe travels and don't stop smiling. —Cook

Posted on Sun, Dec 15, 2013 at 9:18 PM

How many more cigarettes must a man smoke before you open up your heart? —Best regards

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 at 10:00 PM

This great little spot on the Commons is an affirmative action venture that supports people gaining employment skills. Plus they have local artisans, and great bargains. —Odette

Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 at 6:00 PM

to whomever responds to the comment cards at a certain 1970's-built university library, thank you. I don't typically stop at the bulletin board but glad I had some time to read. Not only do you respond to praise and complaints about the library but you also respond to silly stuff with an evident amount of good humour. It's been a few weeks and I'm still smiling. Now instead of taking a tea break in future I plan to take a comment card break. —no wonder we're rated #1

Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 at 4:00 PM

It's quite clear I'm interested in you. That I want to spend time with you ... more than just inside the 4 walls of my bedroom. It's been almost 3 months... 3 months and it's still ongoing!! Don't you get that casual sex doesn't usually last that long? You say it's not just sex ... but then what is it? I know I'm more than some orifices to you, but how much more? There's a reason I always want to make you breakfast in the morning. Open your eyes! I just want to enjoy your company outside the bedroom, too. You never know ... you may even like it. —Orifice Owner